My heart hurts for the people who cannot live their lives like any other Californian, let alone American. It doesn’t matter whether you like the idea of gay people or not. Many good homosexuals have been scattered throughout our world and cultural lexicon for 100s of years. It was never some gross indecency, or sodomistic act put forth by a mentally disturbed mind. In fact it was a natural biological (yes science!) attraction. Put it this way. Homosexuals are not rampant sexual cretins ruining people’s marriages, the sanctity of marriage and childhoods. In fact, the ratios of the number of “crazy” homosexuals to “normal” homosexual citizens is probably the same as the number of crazy straight people to normal straight people. Who are we to deny someone who is comfortable with someone else? That’s what it comes down to. Would you want someone to force you into something you weren’t? To not let you marry the person you love? To be constantly discriminated against for a personal thing?
And don’t give me that crap about how hard it will be for the kids! The youth has managed, the youth generally has the tendency to be progressive and adapt. And homosexuality is a reality, and you can’t deny it with a silly proposition. Sooner or later, your child will learn about gay people and learn that the fear you instilled in them was wrong. Just like future generations learned that slavery was wrong, and discrimination, and suppression of rights. They will learn that some of the most compassionate, generous, intelligent human beings in the world did not commit a crime, but were merely gay. And you will hang your head in shame for denying the rights of another human being. Learn from our previous mistakes, right what we once did wrong, and stop worrying about your shattered pathetic bubble and start worrying about real problems for goodness sakes. All those millions of dollars could have been put to better use like saving the economy, adjusting tax rates, feeding countries, establishing school programs etc than to oppose basic human rights.
No one can tell you what to think, but you have to decide. Is it really worth it fighting the tide? Because, homosexuality will not go away, and one day people will look at this Proposition 8 and be embarrassed that such propositions were passed on American soil.